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[tw: rape trivialization]Because rape culture is funny.

autumn-and-gomorrah:

ah-she-said:

likeamessengerbird:

Really? No. It’s not. Stop.

Are you freaking kidding me…

Australian Jury Says You Can’t Get Raped In Skinny Jeans

This argument really does sicken me. We need to stop finding ways to blame victims. Looking at her clothing as evidence is just…

It just isn’t okay with me.

subconciousevolution:

Rape =/= (Does Not Equal) Sex
Rape == (Equals) An Act of Violence.

subconciousevolution:

Rape =/= (Does Not Equal) Sex

Rape == (Equals) An Act of Violence.

asks:
I plan to do original oratory(a speech competition) this coming school year, and I want to give a speech on rape culture, why it's wrong, and how to fix it. Can you and your followers give me any points to use in my argument?

Absolutely! You heard her, Warriors! Help her out!

The main thing, I think, that is wrong with rape culture is that it always, always, always blames the victim. She was out walking late, she was listening to her iPod and not aware of her surroundings, she was wearing a skirt, she was whatever whatever whatever. What this does is:

A) Takes validation away from victims and causes blame.

B) Supports rapists and excuses their behavior.

How can we fix it? I mentioned an idea a while ago that I truly stand behind. I really think that:

#1: Sex education classes need to be modified. They need to be more effective, they need to have more value. They need to support a woman’s sexuality as well as a man’s.
#2: I think, as part of a sex ed class, rape victims should be invited to tell their stories. I had never heard the story of a rape victim until I took a class on rape culture. They haunt me to this day. It’s intense, yes, but it’s necessary. This is what people need to realize that this is a violent crime. We need to fight against it and help the victims, not the rapists.

I hope this helps! These are just a few pointers but if you need more (like perhaps links and articles?) feel free to send another ask. And Warriors! Help her, por favor!! 

asks:
A few nights ago, a woman at my school was walking and had a knife pulled on her. The attacker then sexually assaulted her, and fled. The campus' response has been 100% predictable: a reinforcement of how NOT to get raped. Don't walk alone (especially ladies. not even kidding. they included that.), especially at night. Stay in well-lit areas. "Mind your presence." (Which means what, exactly? Don't dress like a "slut?") Not "rape is wrong," not "be a decent human being," just "don't get raped."

Unfortunately, this doesn’t surprise me at all. 

This is why we need the Slutwalks. This is why we need activism and protests and people to speak out. We live in a rape culture.

The story above is proof of that.

feministdykeslut:

grrrlscoutcookie:

glompkitty:

slutwalknyc:

Here’s our working flyer! Distribute it widely!
Designed by sammylif!

Only one month till the Slutwalk!

This looks fantastic!

I WILL BE THERE!!!

One month one month one month!

feministdykeslut:

grrrlscoutcookie:

glompkitty:

slutwalknyc:

Here’s our working flyer! Distribute it widely!

Designed by sammylif!

Only one month till the Slutwalk!

This looks fantastic!

I WILL BE THERE!!!

One month one month one month!

So uh…after a bit of drama, I’m back!

What with Hurricane Irene (yay for living in New Jersey!) and some personal drama, I am back again. 

I apologize for hiatus! I hope you all still like me?

We need never be hopeless because we can never be irreparably broken.

Looking for Alaska, John Green

Because I’m a shameless Nerdfighter and this quote never fails to leave me feeling infinite.

Bamboo+Cheap Drinks=Drunk Women

sweetdaydreambeliever:

Oh yes. Believe it or not Bamboo had the audacity to put that on a giant banner flying across the beach so all those from Point Pleasent to wherever the hell it lands could see it.

Excuse me. I need to finish getting ready so I can go out tonight and get insanely drunk and hope someone takes advantage of me.